Catherine Hayward sat in an auditorium chair at City Varieties

The Power of Storytelling

I was woken at 5.30am one day last week by a little hand tapping my shoulder – no, not an elf, we have hi-tech anti-elf security in our house that stops those cheeky troublemakers from getting in – but my five-year-old daughter with that Very Important Question that all parents dread: “Mummy, is Santa Claus real?”

Written by Catherine Hayward, Learning & Engagement Manager

Christmas spoiler alert, this post may (or may not) reveal the truth about Santa’s existence.

A parenting dilema

Before I could even rouse myself fully from my own Christmas dreams of sugarplum fairies and gingerbread villages, she hit me with an avalanche of follow-up questions: “How does he get in, we don’t even have a chimney? How do the reindeer fly? How does he find the same wrapping paper that you and Daddy use?”

I was faced with that classic parenting dilemma – do I take the easy quick fix and say “Of course he’s real. He’s the magic of Christmas. They have a B&M in Lapland for his wrapping paper”, or do I face up to the truth and support her to do the same? But surely if she no longer believes in Santa then that’s the magic of Christmas shattered before she’s even six. Without Santa and his reindeer, the ritual of the stockings and mince pie on Christmas Eve, is Christmas still going to be magical for her? And what about her little brother? The thought was devastating.

I can’t remember exactly what I said to her that morning last week but with the power of hindsight (and the help of various parenting Insta accounts), I hope it went something like this*: “Christmas is a magical time, full of traditions and Santa can mean different things to different people. Some people believe that Santa leaves presents for children all over the world, some people don’t believe that Santa is a real person but still like to exchange gifts, and some people don’t celebrate Christmas at all. What do you think?”

*Disclaimer – it most definitely did not!

Catherine Hayward stands in front of a large Christmas Tree in the foyer at City Varieties.

Catherine Hayward at The Varieties. Credit Sophie Ashley

Stories are a shared experience

Reflecting on what I should have said to my little girl, I’ve realised that what’s important is not the factual truth of whether Santa is real or not, but the idea of Santa and the deeper truth his story tells us about Christmas.

Santa originally derived from St Nicholas, patron saint and protector of children, but he was a far cry from the jolly old man in a red suit that we know today, even carrying a rod (alongside his sacks of gifts), to remind children to say their prayers! Our modern depiction of Father Christmas was in part brought to life by poets and storytellers in the 19th century to make Christmas a more child-friendly celebration. We know of course that children learn best through stories, and through the tale of Father Christmas children (and adults) learn the joy of giving without the expectation of return and the importance of looking after others.

Stories are a shared experience; you can’t tell a story on your own. Whether that’s the story of a red-suited reindeer enthusiast, a baby born in a stable, or the traditions of enjoying special foods with family and friends, the stories that we tell at this time of year help us to connect and consider what is important to us.

Our need for a good tale, particularly at Christmas time is one reason why a visit to the theatre is an unmissable festive tradition for so many families.

Leeds East Primary Partnership

At Leeds Heritage Theatres, we believe that all young people should have access to theatre and the arts. Through our schools’ programme and youth theatres, the Learning & Engagement team works with roughly 9000 young people throughout the year, opening our venues and sharing our unique stories.

For the last 12 months, we have been working closely, alongside Leeds Playhouse and Northern Ballet, with five schools from the Leeds East Primary Partnership to build a creative connection. This term culminated in 1,450 pupils sharing the experience of watching a professional theatre production, many for the very first time. Seeing the children immersed in the story, totally gripped by the action, singing and dancing along to the music and cheering so loudly at the end, was enough to make anyone believe in the magic of Christmas – Santa, or no Santa.

This visit to the theatre, whilst a memorable Christmas experience for those pupils that attended, is just the start of our partnership with these schools. Earlier this term we hosted a training day for all 100 teachers, exploring our historic venues and the wider cultural offer of the city. Teachers were invited to participate in practical dance and drama workshops, led by professional practitioners, equipping them with tools and exercises to elevate their teaching back in the classroom.

Catherine Hayward strikes a pose wearing a green Victorian dress outside The Varieties.

Catherine Hayward at The Varieties

Through upskilling teachers in this way and building their confidence and expertise to incorporate storytelling and creativity into their lesson planning, pupils at these schools will continue to learn through a more playful curriculum. Teachers will also be supported throughout 2024 and beyond, with more visits and training in the pipeline. For these schools, teachers and pupils, the fairytale of their visit to the theatre will resonate long after the tinsel has come down.

In our household then, we will be keeping the story of Santa alive and fuelling my daughter’s imagination by sharing tales of the North Pole, flying reindeer and cheeky elves. On Christmas Eve, we will excitedly hang our stockings up and put out a mince pie and a carrot on our special Christmas plate. Because I realise now that, even though my little girl is growing up, if we continue to share stories, Christmas can still be magical and we can all still believe.

Merry Christmas.

Find out more

The Learning and Engagement programme at Leeds Heritage Theatres offers creative opportunities for all young people through our Schools Programme of theatre tours, curriculum-linked workshops, after-school drama clubs, creative careers workshops and work experience.

Our thriving Leeds Grand Youth Theatre and Leeds Actors in Training programme offers young people the chance to develop skills and explore their own creativity.

For further information https://leedsheritagetheatres.com/take-part/.

Email learning@leedsheritagetheatres.com or call 07738 267757.